Being a Mistress can be exhausting. As I made clear to my slave right from the beginning: I cannot pamper him all freaking day long. First, I have obligations other than him \u2013 he is not the center of the universe. Secondly, sometimes I just want to be on my own, undisturbed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
So here are a couple of things to do in a femdom relationship when you just want to be left alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Just lying on the sofa, eating nachos, watching random fluff on everybody’s favorite streaming service \u2013 that’s what every Mistress needs once in a while. So what shall we do with the slave in that time? If I don’t make proper arrangements, he will want to sit next to me on the sofa and cuddle. Often enough, that’s actually enjoyable. But not always.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For starters, sailors on my ship don’t get to sit around idly all day \u2013 their role is to contribute to the mission. Ideally, while I enjoy my me-time, he does something useful. Maybe tidy up the house, earn us some money, or whatever. If none of that is possible, then at least he mustn’t bother me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Just like I need my me-time, I noticed that it can also be mutually beneficial if the slave gets some alone time as well. Thus, before turning on the TV, I get two of the four keys to a successful femdom relationship<\/a>. I cuff his hands behind his back and then lock him in our little jail cell. No smartphone, no tablet, no TV, just locked in a small, dark room. This occasional disconnect from the outside world, including the digital one, I find very calming on him. It gives him the chance to re-think his priorities and reflect on his behavior, without the constant bombardment by outside stimuli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I think I mentioned it somewhere already, but I have a thing for Brazilian movies. Longer movies are actually a good occasion for some longer training session that require you to monitor the slave but not actively interact with him. I’m of course talking about taking care of his ugly mouth-breathing habit. Here is my procedure:<\/p>\n\n\n\n When all this is done, I just let him kneel there and practice breathing through his nose. In two hours, a lot of progress can be made. I don’t have to do anything \ud83c\udf89. Bonus: I can use his back as a foot rest. Whether that’s with or without high heels depends on my mood. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Being a Mistress can be exhausting. As I made clear to my slave right from the beginning: I cannot pamper him all freaking day long. First, I have obligations other than him \u2013 he is not the center of the universe. Secondly, sometimes I just want to be on my own, undisturbed. So here are … Leer m\u00e1s<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":119,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[8,22],"class_list":["post-47","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diary","tag-femdom","tag-self-care"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\tMore training<\/h2>\n\n\n\n