Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Why do you run this website?

Getting into the Femdom lifestyle took Me a long time. I have wasted years and entire relationships on finding a dynamic that works for Me. By operating this blog, I want to help dominant women and submissive men to reach happy lives with fulfilling relationships.

How can I help you in your mission?

It’s simple: the more money I earn here, the less I have to earn money elsewhere. If you donate to this project, e.g. by buying a t-shirt or buying me a coffee, I can dedicate more time to this blog and My lifestyle.

What do you think of maledom? Is it ok if men dominate women?

I’ll be frank: absolutely not my thing. I respect the choices of other women, but I find it neither sexy nor bearable. Women have suffered enough – we should be in charge!

That’s why I have difficulties enjoy most of mainstream BDSM-themed entertainment. Fifty Shades of Grey – terrible in so many ways; 365 Days – even worse.

Do you attend public fetish or BDSM parties?

Rarely, and it has to do mainly with maledom. Although it’s great that we live in a world (or rather: a part of the world) in which we can express and live our kinks freely and openly, I just find those parties often enough not sexy. Don’t get Me wrong: I’m cool with how others practice BDSM, but that doesn’t mean I enjoy watching it. However, I think it’s a lot of fun to be around other dominant women. So with the right people, I can and do enjoy dedicated Femdom parties!

You write a lot about male chastity, how you keep your husband locked in a cockcage. What about chastity belts for women?

Female sexuality has been suppressed since the dawn of mankind or at least civilization. Female chastity is definitely not something I have any interest in.

How do I tell my partner that I’m into BDSM?

Always tricky. For lack of having written a post on that yet, here just three quick points:

  1. Take it slow. You just met a person in a vanilla setting, don’t know anything about their kinks – do yourself and your date a favor and don’t take them to your basement sex dungeon right away.
  2. Communicate. Tastes, desires and wishes are different from person to person. You will – both! – have to speak openly about them and see where they overlap.
  3. Explore. We don’t know everything we might enjoy. Just like with food, you have to keep trying new things to see if you will like them.
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