Kinky Glossary

In this ever expanding glossary, I will explain some of my favorite terms.

  • Tapones de culo (y arnés)

    Butt plug (and harness)

    Butt plugs come in all shapes and sizes, and serve different purposes. What is the purpose of a butt plug? In psychoanalysis, anal eroticism is sensuous pleasure derived from anal sensations. Sigmund Freud linked it to psychosexual development during childhood. Some of us are fascinated by the erogenous zone around the anus, an area deeply…


  • Long-term bondage in a 24/7 household

    Long-term bondage in a 24/7 household

    People type “long-term bondage” into a search box and mean three different nights. A weekend in rope. A month in a cage. A marriage where he does not get to decide when his hands are free. I live the third one. This post is what long-term bondage actually looks like in a household that also…


  • Long-term chastity cockcage buying guide

    Long-term chastity cockcage buying guide

    This is the long-term chastity cockcage buying guide I wish we had when we started. Years ago I left a short glossary note on this page. It explained, more or less, what a cockcage is. It did not help anyone who was about to spend money. So I am rewriting it properly: what we use…


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