Being a Mistress can be exhausting. As I made clear to my slave right from the beginning: I cannot pamper him all freaking day long. First, I have obligations other than him – he is not the center of the universe. Secondly, sometimes I just want to be on my own, undisturbed.
So here are a couple of things to do in a femdom relationship when you just want to be left alone.
Netflix, no chill
Just lying on the sofa, eating nachos, watching random fluff on everybody’s favorite streaming service – that’s what every Mistress needs once in a while. So what shall we do with the slave in that time? If I don’t make proper arrangements, he will want to sit next to me on the sofa and cuddle. Often enough, that’s actually enjoyable. But not always.
Do something useful
For starters, sailors on my ship don’t get to sit around idly all day – their role is to contribute to the mission. Ideally, while I enjoy my me-time, he does something useful. Maybe tidy up the house, earn us some money, or whatever. If none of that is possible, then at least he mustn’t bother me.
You-time
Just like I need my me-time, I noticed that it can also be mutually beneficial if the slave gets some alone time as well. Thus, before turning on the TV, I get two of the four keys to a successful femdom relationship. I cuff his hands behind his back and then lock him in our little jail cell. No smartphone, no tablet, no TV, just locked in a small, dark room. This occasional disconnect from the outside world, including the digital one, I find very calming on him. It gives him the chance to re-think his priorities and reflect on his behavior, without the constant bombardment by outside stimuli.
More training
I think I mentioned it somewhere already, but I have a thing for Brazilian movies. Longer movies are actually a good occasion for some longer training session that require you to monitor the slave but not actively interact with him. I’m of course talking about taking care of his ugly mouth-breathing habit. Here is my procedure:
- I make him kneel in front of the sofa.
- Hands cuffed behind the back.
- I stuff a sock of mine in his mouth, then tape the mouth shut with bondage tape.
- Then I pull his rubber full-face mask over his head.
When all this is done, I just let him kneel there and practice breathing through his nose. In two hours, a lot of progress can be made. I don’t have to do anything 🎉. Bonus: I can use his back as a foot rest. Whether that’s with or without high heels depends on my mood.