It seems like a no-brainer that a slave is only allowed to climax if his Mistress explicitly allows it. By making him wear a male chastity device, often just called “cockcage”, she assumes full control of his penis and its functions. Not only is it impossible to come while locked up, even erections are already utterly unpleasant.
What is a cockcage?
Is there ever a reason for a slave not to wear one?
– Mistress
A cockcage usually consists of two parts.
- A ring that fits around the base of the shaft and the balls. It should be tight enough to not fall off even when pulled. Of course, it should also not be so tight as to strangulate the penis and testicles.
- The actual cage that attaches to the ring. Cages and r
Cockcages come in different sizes and materials. My slave is locked up in a solid metal cage.
Why do you use a cockcage?
Male chastity can serve several purposes.
- Wearing a cockcage for extended periods of time is a constant reminder of the slave’s place in the hierarchy. It reaffirms the boundaries and the dynamic.
- It prevents instant self-gratification through masturbation. Your slave will learn that good things don’t come (no pun intended) immediately, and that he has to work toward it. Releasing him from the cage can be a reward for outstanding behavior.
- Not relevant to me, but important to some: it prevents cheating. My take on this: since we are in a monogamous relationship, cheating/adultery is anyway outside my boundaries, and should not be contingent on my slave wearing a chastity device.
- Under two circumstances, wearing a cockcage will be more than a slight discomfort.
- First, it’s a real pain when the slave gets sexually aroused. This means that by wearing the chastity cage, the Mistress also controls the mind of her slave, who will be less tempted to have undue thoughts. The fun starts when Mistress starts teasing the slave, be it by dressing sexy, seducing him, touching him.
- Secondly, it’s a pain at night. Men get several erections per night – the cage usually makes my slave wake up when he gets them. The more the cage is worn, the more the slave will get used to sleeping in chastity. Note also that depending on the model, it can be difficult to find a comfortable sleeping position and turning around can be uncomfortable.
My rules
The slave always wears his cockcage. After all, why would he ever not wear one? He is entitled to a 1-hour break in the morning and breaks for physical activities. Whether he wears it overnight and on weekends depends entirely on his behavior.
Proposal for a 23/7 relationship