Why do you run this website?
Getting into the Femdom lifestyle took Me a long time. I have wasted years and entire relationships on finding a dynamic that works for Me. By operating this blog, I want to help dominant women and submissive men to reach happy lives with fulfilling relationships.
How can I help you in your mission?
It’s simple: the more money I earn here, the less I have to earn money elsewhere. If you donate to this project, e.g. by buying a t-shirt or buying me a coffee, I can dedicate more time to this blog and My lifestyle.
What do you think of maledom? Is it ok if men dominate women?
I’ll be frank: absolutely not my thing. I respect the choices of other women, but I find it neither sexy nor bearable. Women have suffered enough – we should be in charge!
That’s why I have difficulties enjoy most of mainstream BDSM-themed entertainment. Fifty Shades of Grey – terrible in so many ways; 365 Days – even worse.
Do you attend public fetish or BDSM parties?
Rarely, and it has to do mainly with maledom. Although it’s great that we live in a world (or rather: a part of the world) in which we can express and live our kinks freely and openly, I just find those parties often enough not sexy. Don’t get Me wrong: I’m cool with how others practice BDSM, but that doesn’t mean I enjoy watching it. However, I think it’s a lot of fun to be around other dominant women. So with the right people, I can and do enjoy dedicated Femdom parties!
You write a lot about male chastity, how you keep your husband locked in a cockcage. What about chastity belts for women?
Female sexuality has been suppressed since the dawn of mankind or at least civilization. Female chastity is definitely not something I have any interest in.
How do I tell my partner that I’m into BDSM?
Always tricky. For lack of having written a post on that yet, here just three quick points:
- Take it slow. You just met a person in a vanilla setting, don’t know anything about their kinks – do yourself and your date a favor and don’t take them to your basement sex dungeon right away.
- Communicate. Tastes, desires and wishes are different from person to person. You will – both! – have to speak openly about them and see where they overlap.
- Explore. We don’t know everything we might enjoy. Just like with food, you have to keep trying new things to see if you will like them.
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