Living the Femdom lifestyle is all fun and games. But sometimes you just need things to get done.
In today’s post, I am giving you a plan how to gear your Femdom dynamic in such a way that it boosts your slave’s productivity for a given task or project.
Example: I needed my slave to develop an app. We had a business idea and plan, but needed an app to get it started. This meant getting the slave into a state of flow, a state of full focus and concentration.
Before: Serving the Mistress
Usually, My slave’s life is centered around serving Me. There’s obviously nothing wrong with that, but when you want to work hardcore on a project, then his mind needs to be on that, and not on Me.
Putting him in chastity, for instance, is meant to shift his mind away from instant gratification and towards mindfulness of his Mistress. The chastity device, oppressive as it is, keeps his horniness.
Chastity is a great way of altering his bevahior, but does not necessarily entail more productivity, especially if the task requires mental focus.
After: Serving the project
This is why I change the narrative from serving Me directly to serving me indirectly through accomplishing a project.
Doing so means: in his mind, there must be nothing but the task at hand.
He needs to stop thinking of me.
Step 1: No more horniness
Horny people might be motivated and eager, but they are at the same time useless for mental work. To get his mind off his dick, I follow a drastically different approach that might surprise you. Instead of keeping him chaste, I order him to jerk off in the shower. No porn, no sensual touches, no sex, but rather a somewhat unglamorous affair.
Step 2: No more distractions
Next, I remove all toys – particularly his phone. No more doomscrolling on Twitter, looking at girls on Instagram, reading the news or keeping up with distant relatives on Facebook.
Step 3: The grind
Time to start the grind. He’ll do some from his jail cell. The cell must not be a distraction, so he actually gets a chair and table (actually, a board that goes over the sink) to put his laptop on. In our case, the grind happened after his day job. So I’d lock him up after dinner. He stays there the whole night. He has everything he needs. A faucet for water, a pillow and blanket for sleeping. It’s up to him how long he works and how much he sleeps. He must choose wisely though, because there are progress checks.
Step 4: Performance measures
Every day, we set specific goals the completion of which is easy to check. In our case, we set deadlines for certain features in the app. Every morning at 9, he had to give me an update.
As you can imagine, failure to meet the defined targets is met with punishments. We don’t have all day for length punitive rituals, so I administer a short, but all the harder spanking – and I make sure he doesn’t enjoy it.
If I see that there is true, tangible progress, then I have my sensual ways of rewarding him.
A sacrifice worth taking
Going in full grinding mode comes at some sacrifice. There was nobody to give me my nightly foot massage, nobody to make my good night tea.
But sometimes in life, you have to sacrifice in the short-term to benefit in the long run. And that’s exactly what you are doing with an intense grind that might propel you forward by achieving certain goals.
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