Last night, I gave my slave a choice. He had been locked in his cockcage for over a month. I had been teasing him a lot during that time, fucked him in the ass several times. “Do you want a day of freedom?”, was my question. You won’t believe it, but that idiot responded with: … Read more
Putting the mind in the right place Friday, June 2nd “Remember that I asked you to do something for me?”, she asked. He hesitantly nodded, knowing full well that he is about to get in serious trouble. He was kneeling naked in the corner of the bedroom, his hands behind his back, facing a corner, … Read more
I’m not into rewards. I command, I discipline, I punish if necessary. Serving me is the reward. However, when I feel that my slave has performed particularly well, I am willing to let him earn a reward. Note the word “earn”. Rewards do not come automatically – slave has to complete a challenge that is … Read more
Your slave misbehaved, you took action and administered a specific punishment for a specific misdemeanor. As we saw in the first post of this series, the punishment is effective if it fits the deed. You put some thought in the beginning: you explained the reason for the treatment, and you set a course of action. … Read more
Physical punishments can be divided in two groups. First is so-called impact-play, that is everything around spanking, caning, flogging, whipping, etc. There will be plenty of opportunities to talk about those methods. For this post, however, I want to list some other suggestions, that are slightly softer in nature, albeit physical. Strenuous workouts Make your … Read more
As a Mistress, you will probably want to enforce or prohibit certain activities to punish your slave. Early bedtime, early morning routine A beautiful punishment, I find. Instead of letting him spend his evening going out or watching Netflix, making him go to bed early. With or without dinner – up to you. For sure, … Read more
Femdom is at its core about a – hopefully loving and nurturing – relationship, and is deeply intertwined with sex. That’s why punishments can also be relational and sexual – and aim at temporarily taking away the relationship and the sex from your slave. When choosing the right punishment in that area, you have to … Read more
Your repertoire of punishments can draw from all senses. Through all our sense we can experience pleasure (think: eargasms or oral orgasms) as well as displeasure. Taste and smell The tongue is an extremely sensitive organ, and thus highly suited for pleasure as well as displeasure. You can go in two directions: give the tongue … Read more
Femdom, most of the time, is a mind game. That’s why punishments can also take place at a purely mental level. For instance, I always make sure to clearly communicate what upset me. These explanations tend to end up rather wordy – I have quite a tendency to indulge in them. In fact, some might … Read more
Is punishment in a Femdom relationship meant to be fun? Consent and preference A 24/7 Femdom relationship should be based on a mutual understanding of and respect for the boundaries – which distinguishes it from abuse. The slave consents to submitting to his Mistress. Such consent, at least in a sane and healthy relationship, has … Read more