The grind – A Femdom story on leveraging the dynamic to achieve greatness

Putting the mind in the right place Friday, June 2nd “Remember that I asked you to do something for me?”, she asked. He hesitantly nodded, knowing full well that he is about to get in serious trouble. He was kneeling naked in the corner of the bedroom, his hands behind his back, facing a corner, … Leer más

Locktober – The month of chastity, and more!

Every year in October, there is a little ritual amongst Mistresses and slaves around the world. The slave gets locked up in a chastity device (a cockcage) for the entire month. I, however, don’t quite get it, it seems. When you’re in a Mistress/slave relationship, why would the slave ever *NOT* be locked? It’s an … Leer más

Long-Term chastity – How it started

I hadn’t always kept my slave in chastity. In the beginning, it was something we did occasionally. When we went to see a sexy show. Or as foreplay of sorts before having sex. Things changed when I developed sleep problems. I ordered slave to sleep in the living room so that I am less distracted … Leer más

5 Ways of Communicating during BDSM Play

Talking too much can be a mood killer. However, BDSM requires a lot of communication and connection between the two (or more) people engaging in it. The best approach is to communicate extensively *before* engaging in play. For a successful scene, Domme and submissive need to know each to know each other’s wishes and boundaries. … Leer más

All you need to know about different forms of long-term bondage

Many kinksters fantasize about long-term bondage. But what does that mean exactly? Just like the BDSM term bondage itself can mean many different things, long-term bondage can be interpreted either in an abstract or a specific way. In a matter of speaking, the institution of marriage is a form of long-term bondage. To people are, … Leer más

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