Money in a 24/7 household

Money in a 24/7 household is the topic people skip until something bounces. They ask about chastity, plugs, and sleeping arrangements. Fewer ask about the bank login. That is odd, because money is where a lot of “24/7” arrangements quietly fall apart. A cage is visible. An overdrawn account is also visible, just later, and … Leer más

Locktober – The month of chastity, and more!

Every year in October, there is a little ritual amongst Mistresses and slaves around the world. The slave gets locked up in a chastity device (a cockcage) for the entire month. I, however, don’t quite get it, it seems. When you’re in a Mistress/slave relationship, why would the slave ever *NOT* be locked? It’s an … Leer más

5 Ways of Communicating during BDSM Play

Talking too much can be a mood killer. However, BDSM requires a lot of communication and connection between the two (or more) people engaging in it. The best approach is to communicate extensively *before* engaging in play. For a successful scene, Domme and submissive need to know each to know each other’s wishes and boundaries. … Leer más

ES