Locktober – The month of chastity, and more!

Every year in October, there is a little ritual amongst Mistresses and slaves around the world. The slave gets locked up in a chastity device (a cockcage) for the entire month. I, however, don’t quite get it, it seems. When you’re in a Mistress/slave relationship, why would the slave ever *NOT* be locked? It’s an … Leer más

5 Ways of Communicating during BDSM Play

Talking too much can be a mood killer. However, BDSM requires a lot of communication and connection between the two (or more) people engaging in it. The best approach is to communicate extensively *before* engaging in play. For a successful scene, Domme and submissive need to know each to know each other’s wishes and boundaries. … Leer más

Series: Punishments – VII. Physical punishments

Physical punishments can be divided in two groups. First is so-called impact-play, that is everything around spanking, caning, flogging, whipping, etc. There will be plenty of opportunities to talk about those methods. For this post, however, I want to list some other suggestions, that are slightly softer in nature, albeit physical. Strenuous workouts Make your … Leer más

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