Money in a 24/7 household is the topic people skip until something bounces. They ask about chastity, plugs, and sleeping arrangements. Fewer ask about the bank login. That is odd, because money is where a lot of “24/7” arrangements quietly fall apart. A cage is visible. An overdrawn account is also visible, just later, and … Read more
Locktober halfway is where most couples invent an exit. We are past the first week. The announcement posts are done. The novelty has worn off. What remains is a normal Tuesday: work emails, a kitchen that will not clean itself, and a key that is still in my possession when he would rather negotiate. I … Read more
Last night, I gave my slave a choice. He had been locked in his cockcage for over a month. I had been teasing him a lot during that time, fucked him in the ass several times. “Do you want a day of freedom?”, was my question. You won’t believe it, but that idiot responded with: … Read more
Living the Femdom lifestyle is all fun and games. But sometimes you just need things to get done. In today’s post, I am giving you a plan how to gear your Femdom dynamic in such a way that it boosts your slave’s productivity for a given task or project. Example: I needed my slave to … Read more
Here’s what happened to me recently: I had an extensive session with My slave. Some punishing, some pegging. Then I started riding him. We was the luckiest guy on Earth, finally getting some action. He had been locked for weeks. And then something unexpected happened: his dick went limp. Unexpected, but – if we’re frank … Read more
Every year in October, there is a little ritual amongst Mistresses and slaves around the world. The slave gets locked up in a chastity device (a cockcage) for the entire month. I, however, don’t quite get it, it seems. When you’re in a Mistress/slave relationship, why would the slave ever *NOT* be locked? It’s an … Read more
I’m not into rewards. I command, I discipline, I punish if necessary. Serving me is the reward. However, when I feel that my slave has performed particularly well, I am willing to let him earn a reward. Note the word “earn”. Rewards do not come automatically – slave has to complete a challenge that is … Read more
Talking too much can be a mood killer. However, BDSM requires a lot of communication and connection between the two (or more) people engaging in it. The best approach is to communicate extensively *before* engaging in play. For a successful scene, Domme and submissive need to know each to know each other’s wishes and boundaries. … Read more
To me, Femdom is a way of life, which is why slave and I also live it outside the house. I would be lying if I were to tell you that I walk around town wearing my latex catsuit, holding my collared slave on a leash. Real life doesn’t work that way. Family, vanilla friends, … Read more
My slave has the unfortunate habit of breathing through his mouth instead of his nose. I can’t stand it, which is why I decided to take things in my own hands. Why breathing through your mouth is bad According to WebMD, breathing through the mouth can dry out gums and the tissue that lines your … Read more