This page is all about strong women and submissive men. It features erotic stories, how-tos for novices as well as experienced Mistresses and slaves, and much more.
On allthingsfemdom.com, I will take you on a journey, sharing intimate experiences from the female-led relationship with my husband. The world of BDSM is huge – however, I will keep it real. That is, I will focus on experiences that actually happen in my life.
Things we will discuss:
- How to (realistically) live a femdom relationship, almost 24/7
- The right toys to please or – more likely – punish your partner
- Sex and chastity
- What I call “Femdom fashion”, that is, how to dress the part – yes, there will be plenty of leather, latex and PVC. Oh, and shoes, of course. We’ll also look at how to take care of your favorite pieces
Getting started
This website contains dozens of posts on various aspects of BDSM and Femdom. So let me be your guide and suggest some places to start from.
Femdom stories
I wrote a couple of Femdom stories based on my experience as a real-life Mistress. One story is interactive, you get to choose the outcome! Read them for pleasure, or even better: use them as a manual! Did you try it at home (please be careful!)? Then send me your experiences! The contact form is at the bottom of the page.
Get to know me
You can read my about page, see my shoes and how I dress for play. I also have a FAQ page.
Get some ideas
I share many of my practices and ideas in the category How to 24/7, which you will enjoy even if you’re not in a 24/7 Femdom dynamic.
The highlight, in my opinion: a spelled-out proposal for a 24/7 Femdom relationship, to be realistically implemented in your daily life.
One series is specifically about punishments: the why, the how, and more. Occasionally, I challenge my slave’s boundaries, and might even reward him if he pushes them.
I keep my slave permanently locked. Read more about it in my series on the Four Keys to Our 24/7 Femdom Relationship. Since Femdom is our lifestyle choice, we also live it outside our house – and I explain you how you can be kinky in public, albeit discretely.
There are some more specific posts, such as the one on our sleeping arrangements, the one on me-time for slave and me, or the one on measures I take against slave’s mouth breathing problem. I also address how to communicate during BDSM play.
Arts, Science and Entertainment
I wrote a couple of no-bullshit posts on the science behind BDSM, e.g. on how common it is in the population. There will also be posts about BDSM in arts and entertainment.
My clothing line
Finally, I designed a series of kinky and stylish t-shirts for Mistresses and slaves. They will be turning heads no matter where you are – and make clear who you are.
Connect with me
Let’s stay in touch! You can follow my on Instagram and Twitter. A great way to say hi: send me a message and buy me a coffee!