As a Mistress, you will probably want to enforce or prohibit certain activities to punish your slave. Early bedtime, early morning routine A beautiful punishment, I find. Instead of letting him spend his evening going out or watching Netflix, making him go to bed early. With or without dinner – up to you. For sure, … Read more
Femdom is at its core about a – hopefully loving and nurturing – relationship, and is deeply intertwined with sex. That’s why punishments can also be relational and sexual – and aim at temporarily taking away the relationship and the sex from your slave. When choosing the right punishment in that area, you have to … Read more
Your repertoire of punishments can draw from all senses. Through all our sense we can experience pleasure (think: eargasms or oral orgasms) as well as displeasure. Taste and smell The tongue is an extremely sensitive organ, and thus highly suited for pleasure as well as displeasure. You can go in two directions: give the tongue … Read more
Femdom, most of the time, is a mind game. That’s why punishments can also take place at a purely mental level. For instance, I always make sure to clearly communicate what upset me. These explanations tend to end up rather wordy – I have quite a tendency to indulge in them. In fact, some might … Read more
Is punishment in a Femdom relationship meant to be fun? Consent and preference A 24/7 Femdom relationship should be based on a mutual understanding of and respect for the boundaries – which distinguishes it from abuse. The slave consents to submitting to his Mistress. Such consent, at least in a sane and healthy relationship, has … Read more
In this series of posts, I want to discuss with you the different ways of punishment. We will of course talk about flogging, whipping, and other forms of impact play – but I want to focus a little bit on non-impact, or even non-physical types of punishment. Effective behavior-improving punishment does not automatically have to be … Read more
Mistress and slave working together as a power couple. This is a comprehensive proposal for a Femdom relationship. It consolidates many of the elements discussed in further detail in other posts. Goal Housework requirements – Laundry: three loads per day– Bed made– Kitchen clean by 10 am– No objects on floor– Dinner prepared by 6 … Read more
Today’s post is somewhat personal. For a couple of years now, I have had a very light sleep. In fact, I have suffered from insomnia. As a result, not only have my days become difficult sometimes, but it has also been a challenge to come up with a sleeping arrangement that works well for me … Read more
In this final post of the series on the four keys of Femdom relationship, we will lock the slave completely away. Key 4: The jail cell We all need to get out of our daily routines, sometimes. As the Mistress, I need personal space and time. To think, to exercise, to read, to just be. … Read more
In the two previous posts of this series on the four keys of success to my Femdom relationship, we focused on the genitals and ass, the importance of keeping them locked up on a regular (butt-plug) if not semi-permanent (cockcage) basis. Keys 3 and 4 will focus more on the slave’s radius of action. Key … Read more