¿Soy el único / la única? ¿Qué tan común es el BDSM en la población general?

Whenever we think about our sexual fantasies, we tend to quickly doubt ourselves. Am I weird? Am I the only one? However, in a world with 7 billion people and an equal amount of manifestations of sexual desires, the answer is generally: no, you are not. BDSM might fall in and out of fashion (think … Leer más

Series: Punishments – VII. Physical punishments

Physical punishments can be divided in two groups. First is so-called impact-play, that is everything around spanking, caning, flogging, whipping, etc. There will be plenty of opportunities to talk about those methods. For this post, however, I want to list some other suggestions, that are slightly softer in nature, albeit physical. Strenuous workouts Make your … Leer más

Series: Punishments – V. Relational and sexual punishments

Femdom is at its core about a – hopefully loving and nurturing – relationship, and is deeply intertwined with sex. That’s why punishments can also be relational and sexual – and aim at temporarily taking away the relationship and the sex from your slave. When choosing the right punishment in that area, you have to … Leer más

Series: Punishments – IV. Sensory punishments

Your repertoire of punishments can draw from all senses. Through all our sense we can experience pleasure (think: eargasms or oral orgasms) as well as displeasure. Taste and smell The tongue is an extremely sensitive organ, and thus highly suited for pleasure as well as displeasure. You can go in two directions: give the tongue … Leer más

Series: Punishments – II. Pain and pleasure

Is punishment in a Femdom relationship meant to be fun? Consent and preference A 24/7 Femdom relationship should be based on a mutual understanding of and respect for the boundaries – which distinguishes it from abuse. The slave consents to submitting to his Mistress. Such consent, at least in a sane and healthy relationship, has … Leer más

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