Series: Punishments – II. Pain and pleasure

Is punishment in a Femdom relationship meant to be fun? Consent and preference A 24/7 Femdom relationship should be based on a mutual understanding of and respect for the boundaries – which distinguishes it from abuse. The slave consents to submitting to his Mistress. Such consent, at least in a sane and healthy relationship, has … Leer más

Series: Punishments – I. Purpose

In this series of posts, I want to discuss with you the different ways of punishment. We will of course talk about flogging, whipping, and other forms of impact play – but I want to focus a little bit on non-impact, or even non-physical types of punishment. Effective behavior-improving punishment does not automatically have to be … Leer más

Proposal for a 24/7 relationship

Mistress and slave working together as a power couple. This is a comprehensive proposal for a Femdom relationship. It consolidates many of the elements discussed in further detail in other posts. Goal Housework requirements – Laundry: three loads per day– Bed made– Kitchen clean by 10 am– No objects on floor– Dinner prepared by 6 … Leer más

Me-time x2

Being a Mistress can be exhausting. As I made clear to my slave right from the beginning: I cannot pamper him all freaking day long. First, I have obligations other than him – he is not the center of the universe. Secondly, sometimes I just want to be on my own, undisturbed. So here are … Leer más

Interactive Story: A lockdown and a sprint – Part 2b

Note: The story begins with Part 1. What a pleasant surprise! All planned tasks completed by noon. The app reached an important milestone in terms of functionality. That merited some reward, for sure. “Put on some clothes, and take your Mistress shopping”, she said, while taking off the buttplug, but keeping his dick caged. Her … Leer más

Interactive Story: A lockdown and a sprint – Part 1

The Lockdown “Incentives are not working with you. I told you to behave well, and that I would give you what you need. So I guess we try a different approach.”, she said that Friday morning. “From now on, you will carry a sentence: one year of cockcage.” He looked up to her while kneeling … Leer más

Sleeping arrangements

Today’s post is somewhat personal. For a couple of years now, I have had a very light sleep. In fact, I have suffered from insomnia. As a result, not only have my days become difficult sometimes, but it has also been a challenge to come up with a sleeping arrangement that works well for me … Leer más

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