Mistress Lucrecia Many kinksters fantasize about long-term bondage. But what does that mean exactly? Just like the BDSM term bondage itself can mean many different things, long-term bondage can be interpreted either in an abstract or a specific way. In a matter of speaking, the institution of marriage is a form of long-term bondage. To people are, … Read more
To me, Femdom is a way of life, which is why slave and I also live it outside the house. I would be lying if I were to tell you that I walk around town wearing my latex catsuit, holding my collared slave on a leash. Real life doesn’t work that way. Family, vanilla friends, … Read more
My slave has the unfortunate habit of breathing through his mouth instead of his nose. I can’t stand it, which is why I decided to take things in my own hands. Why breathing through your mouth is bad According to WebMD, breathing through the mouth can dry out gums and the tissue that lines your … Read more
Whenever we think about our sexual fantasies, we tend to quickly doubt ourselves. Am I weird? Am I the only one? However, in a world with 7 billion people and an equal amount of manifestations of sexual desires, the answer is generally: no, you are not. BDSM might fall in and out of fashion (think … Read more
Your slave misbehaved, you took action and administered a specific punishment for a specific misdemeanor. As we saw in the first post of this series, the punishment is effective if it fits the deed. You put some thought in the beginning: you explained the reason for the treatment, and you set a course of action. … Read more
Physical punishments can be divided in two groups. First is so-called impact-play, that is everything around spanking, caning, flogging, whipping, etc. There will be plenty of opportunities to talk about those methods. For this post, however, I want to list some other suggestions, that are slightly softer in nature, albeit physical. Strenuous workouts Make your … Read more
As a Mistress, you will probably want to enforce or prohibit certain activities to punish your slave. Early bedtime, early morning routine A beautiful punishment, I find. Instead of letting him spend his evening going out or watching Netflix, making him go to bed early. With or without dinner – up to you. For sure, … Read more
Femdom is at its core about a – hopefully loving and nurturing – relationship, and is deeply intertwined with sex. That’s why punishments can also be relational and sexual – and aim at temporarily taking away the relationship and the sex from your slave. When choosing the right punishment in that area, you have to … Read more
Your repertoire of punishments can draw from all senses. Through all our sense we can experience pleasure (think: eargasms or oral orgasms) as well as displeasure. Taste and smell The tongue is an extremely sensitive organ, and thus highly suited for pleasure as well as displeasure. You can go in two directions: give the tongue … Read more
Femdom, most of the time, is a mind game. That’s why punishments can also take place at a purely mental level. For instance, I always make sure to clearly communicate what upset me. These explanations tend to end up rather wordy – I have quite a tendency to indulge in them. In fact, some might … Read more