Kinky Glossary

In this ever expanding glossary, I will explain some of my favorite terms.

  • All you need to know about different forms of long-term bondage

    Many kinksters fantasize about long-term bondage. But what does that mean exactly? Just like the BDSM term bondage itself can mean many different things, long-term bondage can be interpreted either in an abstract or a specific way. In a matter of speaking, the institution of marriage is a form of long-term bondage. To people are,…


  • Butt plug (and harness)

    Butt plug (and harness)

    Butt plugs come in all shapes and sizes, and serve different purposes. What is the purpose of a butt plug? In psychoanalysis, anal eroticism is sensuous pleasure derived from anal sensations. Sigmund Freud linked it to psychosexual development during childhood. Some of us are fascinated by the erogenous zone around the anus, an area deeply…


  • Male chastity device / Cockcage

    Male chastity device / Cockcage

    It seems like a no-brainer that a slave is only allowed to climax if his Mistress explicitly allows it. By making him wear a male chastity device, often just called “cockcage”, she assumes full control of his penis and its functions. Not only is it impossible to come while locked up, even erections are already…


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