Mistress Lucrecia Last night, I gave my slave a choice. He had been locked in his cockcage for over a month. I had been teasing him a lot during that time, fucked him in the ass several times. “Do you want a day of freedom?”, was my question. You won’t believe it, but that idiot responded with: … Read more
Putting the mind in the right place Friday, June 2nd “Remember that I asked you to do something for me?”, she asked. He hesitantly nodded, knowing full well that he is about to get in serious trouble. He was kneeling naked in the corner of the bedroom, his hands behind his back, facing a corner, … Read more
Living the Femdom lifestyle is all fun and games. But sometimes you just need things to get done. In today’s post, I am giving you a plan how to gear your Femdom dynamic in such a way that it boosts your slave’s productivity for a given task or project. Example: I needed my slave to … Read more
Here’s what happened to me recently: I had an extensive session with My slave. Some punishing, some pegging. Then I started riding him. We was the luckiest guy on Earth, finally getting some action. He had been locked for weeks. And then something unexpected happened: his dick went limp. Unexpected, but – if we’re frank … Read more
It’s 6 am on a Saturday. Suddenly the alarm goes off. What the actual fuck? Turns out, my idiot slave had his alarm set for that unbehoving time. Sorry, but I have zero patience for dumb shit like that. My sleep is holy and whoever disturbs it will get my ire. “Take off your underwear!”, … Read more
Every year in October, there is a little ritual amongst Mistresses and slaves around the world. The slave gets locked up in a chastity device (a cockcage) for the entire month. I, however, don’t quite get it, it seems. When you’re in a Mistress/slave relationship, why would the slave ever *NOT* be locked? It’s an … Read more
I hadn’t always kept my slave in chastity. In the beginning, it was something we did occasionally. When we went to see a sexy show. Or as foreplay of sorts before having sex. Things changed when I developed sleep problems. I ordered slave to sleep in the living room so that I am less distracted … Read more
I’m not into rewards. I command, I discipline, I punish if necessary. Serving me is the reward. However, when I feel that my slave has performed particularly well, I am willing to let him earn a reward. Note the word “earn”. Rewards do not come automatically – slave has to complete a challenge that is … Read more
Talking too much can be a mood killer. However, BDSM requires a lot of communication and connection between the two (or more) people engaging in it. The best approach is to communicate extensively *before* engaging in play. For a successful scene, Domme and submissive need to know each to know each other’s wishes and boundaries. … Read more
Many kinksters fantasize about long-term bondage. But what does that mean exactly? Just like the BDSM term bondage itself can mean many different things, long-term bondage can be interpreted either in an abstract or a specific way. In a matter of speaking, the institution of marriage is a form of long-term bondage. To people are, … Read more